I never imagined that my best friend would become as important to me as she is now. She’s a vital part of my life, someone who has seen both my best and worst sides. Despite everything, she has always stood by me, unwavering and loyal. What I appreciate most is that she isn’t afraid to call me out on my mistakes. We’ve had our share of arguments, but I wouldn’t want to navigate conflicts and differences with anyone else.
I met my best friend just one year and seven months after I was born. Yes, my best friend is my sister. From what I can see in old photos and from what I remember, my affection for her has always been deep. Growing up so close in age, we inevitably experienced some jealousy, but as we grew older, we learned to set aside our differences and strengthen our bond. We’ve weathered many storms together, and through it all, our connection has remained unbreakable. Her ability to understand my breakdowns is something I deeply value and will always cherish.
I admit, I wasn’t always the best sister or friend. Driven by my own insecurities, I often put her down, and I bullied her as a way of coping with my own experiences of being bullied. I embarrassed her in front of my so-called friends to mask my own embarrassment, not realizing that I was only demeaning myself more. Looking back, I understand that I cannot undo the past, but I am committed to improving how I treat her, speak to her, and see her. Our relationship is a testament to the power of forgiveness and growth.
I can vividly recall being told numerous times to cherish my sister, because no matter how many friends I might have in life, none could match the love, loyalty, and value she brings to me. They were right, and sadly, I learned that lesson the hard way.
During my elementary school years, I always had friends to turn to. This continued into middle school, but everything changed my 8th-grade year in 2020, when I suddenly found myself without friends. Despite this, my sister was the constant in my life. Being quarantined together and under the same roof 24/7 forced us to grow even closer. That year was tough, but it also reinforced how crucial our bond is.
It is now 2024 and I still consider my sister my best friend to this day. I hope that as the years continue to pass by, we remain with this strong, unbreakable bond.
